Thursday, March 30, 2006

Melodies For Our Marriage


Kylie and I are trying to put together music for our ceremony and reception. So here is way for all of you to be involved. Could you email me or post as comments suggestions for music. For those more technically inclined MP3's are always nice :) We need at least one song to walk out of the church to. I have an iTune's account so I can always get songs from there as well. So please make suggestions. Thank You.

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Back In Brisbane, My Second Home

So all the big updates are done and here I am back in Brizzie. I arrived Friday the 17th at 10am, made it through customs quickly and Kylie was there waiting for me. The rest of Friday is a little vague. All I know is that it was good to be with Kylie again.

While I was still in Mesa, Kylie had a found a church for us to get married in, as well someone to perform the ceremony. The church is Sandgate Baptist Church and it is a sought out location for weddings so it is amazing that we were able to book it on such a short notice. On the Sunday after arriving Kylie and I drove up to Sandgate and went to the church service at the church where we are to be wed. It was really nice to see the church and everyone at the church was quite friendly. We talked to the guy who is in charge of weddings there and confirmed everything, so we at least have a place to get married at and someone to do it. All of this has been an answer to prayer.

I got a chance to try on a suit this week for the wedding. We are going to have a reception back home where Kylie can wear her dress again and I hope to purchase the suit so that I can wear it as well. Yet another answer to prayer is that we were able to get the initial visa paperwork sent off this week. We hope to hear back from the consulate in a couple weeks approving the interview date we asked for. Our honeymoon and flights back home all hinge on this interview so we need prayer that we get the one we want. Lets see what else. We met with the caterer and figured out food for our reception here. Kylie also finalized the guest list of those she wants to invite. It is going to be a small wedding of about 60 or 70 people. We also signed the necessary paperwork for us to be married in Australia.

We need to start figuring out how and what of Kylie's things we are going to try and bring back. We are hoping and praying to find a cheap and easy way to get some of her personal belongings back. We are also hoping to get a little money to help us from selling some of her items.

It has been a busy first week back. What else, what else. Oh we setup a wedding registry online at Amazon.com since people from both Australia and U.S. can order from it. For those curious here is the link: Kylie and Aaron's Wedding Registry

There is still a lot to figure out and to do before we can make back to AZ. I am still trying find a nice place for the honeymoon, we need to find wedding bands, arrange flights back home, as well as many other things.

Anyone that wants to come over from the U.S. for the wedding is welcome to. Just let me know.

That is about it for now. I will try and update more often. Thank You all for your support and prayer. God Bless.

The Big Update: Part 4 (Feb 28 - Mar 17)

Now starts the dark time, the time without Kylie. I had few things that needed to get done before heading back to Australia. First off was trying to figure out how Kylie and I can get married and not have to be apart for months waiting on a visa for her to come over here. Everything I had read said it would take a few months to get a visa, but I just prayed there would be a better way. I actually woke the next day and was looking at the visa process when I found out about Direct Consular Filing. DCF allows you to apply for a visa in person at the consulate. For Australia you are able to go to the U.S. Consulate in Sydney and file your paperwork and get a visa in day. That sounded perfect. I emailed the consulate and they sent a packet of forms to Kylie that day and I downloaded the necessary forms for my part and started filling them out. After reading over the requirements I needed 3 years of tax returns and a letter stating I was employed. So I emailed my manager and arranged a meeting with him to talk about work. The meeting went great not only do have a job to go back to, he said I could start back on the 1st of July giving me time to get our house in order. Also he arrange for me to get a letter stating I was employed. So all of that was an answer to prayer. I had talked to Kylie and I decided I would try to make it back to Australia by March 17. I had to order my tax transcripts but it said it would take 14 days to receive them, it ended up taking only 7 which was another answer to prayer. So I was able to get all my paper work finished about day before I left. So on the 15th of March I boarded my flight and headed off to Australia once again.

The Big Update: Part 3 (Feb 18 - Feb 27)


Back again. Lets see at this point Kylie and I have been engaged for 4 days. On the Saturday after our trip, there was an open house for Kylie so that people could meet her. It ended up turning into a little engagement party as well. She was able to meet many of my friends and relatives. We also spent some time on Saturday discussing wedding plans. Well we decided to get married earlier than later and she decided that she would be willing to move over here to AZ. At this point we hadn't really settled on a date but we knew it would be sometime in May, since I needed to go back to work in June. Well after talking about wedding things we decided we should do something fun on Sunday so off we went to the Phoenix zoo. It was pretty much a perfect day at the zoo. All the animals were out and we enjoyed walking around outside. It was a great day and we got a lot of good pictures of the animals.

Monday and Tuesday of the second week were just spent hanging out together. I was able to take Kylie over to my townhouse and show her where we would be living. She loved it. The nice thing is I have never lived there so it is going to be new to both of us and we can make it our place. On Tuesday we headed up to Payson and Globe to visit my grandparents, and Laura, Austin and Eowyn. Also I talked with my dad and we ended up planning a little trip south. We decided to go to Tucson and Bisbee on Thursday and Friday. Kylie was definitely going to get the the whirlwind tour of Arizona on her two weeks here. On Wednesday we had tickets for the Phoenix Suns game. Before coming over Kylie said she would love to go to a game, so that is what we did. We got tickets for my parents, my brothers and their girlfriends and my friend Josh. So we had a big crowd going to the game. It was blast, the Suns won and Kylie got a free hat and Steve Nash bobble-head doll.

Thursday morning my parents, Kylie and I loaded up headed down Tucson. We got there about lunch time. We stopped at the Old Peublo Grill resturant and had some mexican food. The real reason we stopped there though was so we could get some Chile Pecan ice cream. It is good stuff, I highly recommend it. We also stopped at the Saguaro national park and looked all the cacti. Kylie enjoyed it all, since where she lives at they don't really have cactus. It was once again a beautiful day. Leaving Tucson we headed down to where we would be staying, a place called Cochise and I went for a hike. It was beautiful the walls of the canyon had pink, yellow, and green rocks all through it. While we were out hiking we came across a little javelina. In the morning we woke and there were deer outside of our window and all kinds of beautiful birds. We got a our breakfast delivered to our room and we sat outside with my parents and watched the deer and birds. It was an amazing experience. After breakfast we loaded up and headed to Bisbee. I have never been to Bisbee so it was fun. It is pretty much a tourist mining town. We wandered around there visiting shops. My dad orders coffee from a coffee roaster down in Bisbee so we found his shop as well. It was a relaxing time just being with Kylie and hanging out with my parents. We left Bisbee about mid-afternoon and headed back up to Phoenix.

Well we had been discussing wedding things all this time and we finally decided on date. May 13, 2006. Kylie and I spent the rest of her time here just visiting a few friends and just touring the area. On Monday the 27th night, I took to her the airport and she flew away :( Now we would be apart for a couple of weeks until I could get things squared away over here and get a ticket back to Brisbane.

The Big Update: Part 2 (Feb 11 - Feb 17)

Ok, where did I leave off. Kylie arrived right on time, we retrieved the bags quickly and headed out of the airport as fast as possible. We got her home (parents house) and let her get settled a little before heading out to lunch. We spent most of the day just relaxing. Sunday we got up and went a church where she was greeted by just about everyone :) Thank you all at Trinity for making Kylie feel welcome and loved. A little background info, before Kylie came I set up a trip to go see Sedona, the Grand Canyon and some of the Flagstaff area. Kylie and I talked about the trip and things we wanted to and decided she needed some hiking boots, so we went shopping. Shopping was fun, everything was new and exciting for her. Needless to say, we found some boots for her. That brings us up to February 14, the day we left for our little trip up north.

Valentine's Day started off good, I woke Kylie up with some flowers, cards, and some candy. She was really surprised. Little did she know that she was going to have a much bigger surprise later in the day. I mean Valentine's day, could there be any better day to propose on. We packed up our things and headed up to Sedona, our first stop. We arrived in Sedona about lunch time so we grabbed something to eat and talked about what we wanted to do. By this time the ring was really burning a hole in my pocket, I really wanted to find a good place to propose. I had thought about the Chapel in the Rocks, maybe some of you know which one I mean. It seemed like a good idea so I suggested we go there. Upon arriving at the chapel it was much busier than I suspected and so I decided I needed to find a different venue, so I suggested maybe we should go hike a little. So we drove down and found a trail to hike out among the rocks. While hiking I found a place that I liked, that gave us a good view of the surrounding area. I gave Kylie a big hug and I asked her, if I could ask her a question :) At this point I got down on one knee, pulled out the ring and asked her to marry me. Much to my joy, she said "YES!!!!" and slipped the ring onto her finger. So now I was engaged :) By the way it was a beautiful day, it had been cloudy earlier, but as we hiked the sun peaked out and lit up all the rocks around us. It was perfect. We finished up our hike, drove up to Flagstaff where we were going to stay. Valentine's Day 2006 had started good and it definitely ended good. A day I won't forget.

We woke up the next morning and had a great breakfast. Today was the day we were going to go see the Grand Canyon. We headed up to the east entrance and proceeded to drive all along the South Rim. We stopped at one place where the Little Colorado had created a canyon. Kylie was impressed with that, I was getting excited to show her the Grand Canyon. It was quite windy out when we arrived at the national park entrance, the wind was blowing a good 35 to 40 mph, so it was really cold as well. We braved the weather and took a walk down to the viewpoint. Kylie was then really impressed. It was beautiful being there with Kylie, it just hit me then how much God loves us, a year ago I wouldn't have even dreamt this, but here I was with the woman I love. It was awesome! Kylie and I continued along the South Rim stopping to check out different viewpoints and taking some pictures. It started to get really cold as it became evening so we headed back to Flagstaff. It had been another great day.

On the 16th we woke to another great day. We had decided the night before to go hiking so we flipped through a book of hikes around the Flagstaff area. We found a nice one called the Red Mountain hike, you hike back into a crater of a blown out volcano. It was about a 30 minute drive outside of Flagstaff, so we decided to go for it. Apparently the night before it had snowed because as we drove out of Flagstaff the ground had a nice white coating to it. We arrived at the mountain and started to hike in. We reached the base of the mountain in about an hour and you walk in through a split in the crater wall. Inside the crater there are amazing rock structures and rock colors caused by the lava flows. It was a very quiet, beautiful place. Also a somewhat of an alien landscape. Kylie and I spent some time hiking around the small canyons caused by the lava flows and playing in the little bit of snow that we found. After spending a couple of hours there we hiked back out and headed back into Flagstaff. We thought we would grab some lunch and then go out for another hike, but it was getting cold quickly so we decided to do a little urban hiking. I took Kylie to wander around one of the grocery stores in the Flagstaff. It was the first time she had been to the supermarket in the U.S. She was definitely overwhelmed and she was particularly impressed with the cereal aisle. As strange as it sounds there was a fun time had by all walking around that Albertsons.

Friday the 17th was our last day up north. We woke up, grabbed some breakfast, and packed up our things. We had talked earlier about going to see Montezuma's Castle, so that was on our itinerary for today. We loaded up our things and headed back down to Phoenix. We took the scenic route back, cutting through Oak Creek Canyon and Sedona. It is a beautiful and fun drive, going through the canyon. We reached Montezuma's Castle about mid-afternoon. Kylie had never seen any Indian ruins so the castle was a good stop. Apparently they don't let you go up into the castle any more so we had to make do with just taking pictures, it was good stop none the less. Finishing up at the castle we headed back into Phoenix. It was an awesome trip. I got engaged to the woman of my dreams. Kylie was able to see some of the most beautiful places in Arizona and most importantly Kylie and I were able to spend time together.

So that pretty much covers Kylie's first week in AZ. Exciting times :) Stayed tuned for more.

The Big Update: Part 1 (Jan 31 - Feb 11)

It has been a while since my last update. To say a lot has happen since then is an understatement. First I left on Australia on January 31st and flew home. But before flying home Kylie setup a date (February 11) to come over to AZ. Well it was going to be a long 11 days before I got to see Kylie again, but a busy 11 days. The first thing we did when I got back from the Land Down Under was to go grab some Mexican food. I was having withdrawals. After that I spent a few days just recovering for the flight. My parents were excited to hear that Kylie was coming. My parents and I had a talk about Kylie and what I was thinking and pretty much realized that I really really really loved Kylie and that I needed to go get a ring. So that is what I did. I start looking for rings hoping to have one before she came over. I also managed to get my taxes done to :) I found a ring and had it in hand 2 days before she arrived. It was good to get the ring but I was so excited that I really wanted to tell Kylie every time I talked to her. Well on the day of her arrival I got to the airport early and paced around waiting for her to appear. You can ask my parents I had the biggest smile when I finally saw her. It was so good get to hold her again and give her a big hug. Well that brings us up to her arrival in America. I will tell about her time in AZ in the next update.